Thursday, July 28, 2011

Bridal: Bridal Showers-yay or nay?


I'm probably going to piss off a lot of my relatives and friends for saying this, but I really hate bridal showers. The thing is, whenever I'm at a bridal shower, I ALWAYS get stuck with the hard labor work involved in the shower. You know what I'm talking about; unwrapping the gifts, passing them to the next person in the assembly line, and then getting the gift back and trying to organize it somewhere in a corner so it's easy to carry off and take home. I understand when one is a bridesmaid, part of their job is to help out with the bridal shower, but c'mon! (lol) It's not an easy job when you have on 5 inch heels and a dress. It's just not a good look to be cute one minute and then wiping sweat off your forehead after pushing around boxes that are bigger than you. So that's my gripe about bridal showers.
I know it's inevitable that I will have my own one day (my mother wouldn't have it any other way), but if i can help it, I would like to try a different approach. And one more thing, I don't really care to sit there and watch the bride-to-be open and show off all the gifts they get; I already know what you're getting! It's called the BRIDAL REGISTRY! On the upside, I do enjoy them because it's a good excuse to get together with friends and family, and I'm always up for a good time, but I could do without the hard labor.  Does anyone have any ideas for a non-traditional baby shower, that's still fun? Let me know some of your ideas.

Friday, July 22, 2011

Bridal: Rehearsal Dinner Fridays a'la BBQ

Rehearsal Dinner: BBQ Style!


Antik Batik top, €109
All Saints hot shorts, $38
ALDO flat sandals, $78
Forever21 flat thong sandals, $13
Old Navy hobo handbag, $13
All Saints tassel necklace, $58
Gold necklace, $34
TopShop jersey dress, $55


Its summer time. With this recent heat wave I thought about being outside, hence the BBQ rehearsal dinner. For a BBQ, really anything goes.  The key is to wear something comfortable while being able to breath in your skin. Here are two different outfits I created that are appropriate for a BBQ that are comfortable without having to sacrifice style. What type of clothes do you wear to a BBQ?

Thursday, July 21, 2011

Bridal: The Bachelorette Party!

So it's time to start thinking about the BIG night? The first thing to consider is everyone's budget. If the plan is to go off to an island, make sure everyone that's getting invited is able to afford it.  Really, the event depends on what the bride wants and what is actually feasible. Whatever the plan is, check out Bridesmaid Aid for some tips on how to plan the bachelorette party and what to expect that night.  If you plan on having some props, e-bachelorette can supply you and your guests with some interesting (i.e. naughty) accessories to party the night away. Have you ever been to a bachelorette party? What were some things that were memorable and some things you would rather forget?

Wednesday, July 20, 2011

Bridal: Wedding Cakes


When trying to figure out what kind of cake you would like to have at your wedding, think about how feel when it comes to sweets.  If you are a dessert person, then make sure you don't skip out on a great tasting cake. I've discovered that while during my own wedding planning, a lot of people don't care for cake. This is appalling to me because I'm ALL about the cake! If the cake is good, I will definitely remember the wedding. On the other hand, some brides want the cake to look just as good as them; which is fine especially since it will probably be photographed. Check out these Crazy Wedding Cakes to get some inspiration. For a more traditional design go to Wedding Cake Designs and The Knotty Bride for more ideas. Do you enjoy a nice piece of cake? or do you pass it up?