I would like to take this opportunity to give a little advice for brides to be. DO ALL THE PLANNING BY YOURSELF! To be honest, I feel that if brides do the planning on their own, it will make things go a little more smoothly. Yes, I agree it is fun going along with your fiancee' or other relatives (i.e. Mom, future Mother-in-law), but the issue is that you want to please everyone and it's just not possible. Perhaps on your first visit to certain vendors it's a good idea to take everyone with you, but then for the rest of the visits and final decision making, go alone especially if you're going to be the one handing over the loot! If you know exactly what you want and you are careful about where you spend your money, then I say just go alone. In the end, whatever choices you make, I'm sure everyone will be happy with it because no one else was involved with the decision making. I realize that planning a wedding can be quite stressful at times, but you have to step away for a second and remember why you are getting married in the first place. (Even if it's your fiancee' that's causing you stress) Dont's sweat the small stuff because the only thing that matters is that you will be marrying your best friend! Has anyone ever had a stressful time planning their wedding?
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